Love & Relationships

So this is a topic I have to get off my chest before I can go any further. Love & Relationships! That's right we've all had them. I recently have gotten out of a relationship, but I won't get into that, but I can tell you what I've learned and what experience I've gained through various lessons. But before I get into that, I wonder, in this day and age, what do we as a young community look for in a significant other? I look around and I see some of the corniest brothers getting the most play and lying like a rug to a lot of these young girls out here...And I'm not hating, believe me, I always give credit when credit is due; But it seems so easy to manipulate the minds of people these days.Smh..... If you take nothing away from this entire blog, remember this: "The key to a persons body lies in their mind; once you capture the mind everything else is child's play.
Now, as far as my experiences go, I've learned to be more patient for the right one and to not jump into something without having a full understanding of what I'm getting myself into..In addition, I learned to also not have expectations and to not second guess myself...Remember, If you have to second guess yourself, then it's more then likely not meant to be. Most importantly, I've learned to LOVE myself and appreciate myself as a young man FULLY before I can love and give myself to a woman. As of right now, I'm learning to not be so stubborn with myself; but to love & appreciate life to its fullest....
So with that being said, Love your self and be very careful who you give yourself too; because if you keep giving a piece of your self to different people, when the times comes to meet your soul mate, what will you be able to give him/her?????